Rules vs Exceptions
ESTJ sends a spreadsheet itinerary; ENFP comments "not here" on line one.
They'll see this match write-up. Your test answers stay with you.
These two
ENFP × ESTJESTJ relaxes when things run as planned; ENFP has fun by bending the plan a little. At first they fascinate each other: ESTJ admires ENFP's freedom, and ENFP admires ESTJ's certainty. Living with it is harder. ESTJ starts to see ENFP as careless, and ENFP starts to find ESTJ suffocating. In a fight, ESTJ talks facts and ENFP talks feelings, so it's like they're having two different arguments.
To make it lastIn a fight, separate "what happened" from "how it felt."
Each on their own
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