Sparring Partners
You rush over to break up the fight; they say "we're just chatting."
They'll see this match write-up. Your test answers stay with you.
These two
ENTJ × ENTPENTP throws out ideas and ENTJ turns them into plans. Both talk fast and love logic, so their conversations crackle, and that's exactly what they enjoy. Neither takes criticism personally, which makes things easy. The friction comes at the finish. ENTJ wants to push the plan through to the end, while ENTP wants to rebuild it the moment a cooler idea shows up. For ENTJ, it's like a new ingredient dropped into a nearly finished dish.
To make it lastPark new ideas in a "next round" note and finish this one first.
Each on their own
When it's serious, you plan for it — a concrete future, and real steps toward it. Just don't optimize every date; leave some room for spontaneity, or your partner may feel like they're on a project timeline.
The ContrarianBoredom is the enemy, so every date has to be something new. You fall fast for someone who can volley wordplay, but you may stir up tension once things get comfortable. Face the serious talk head-on for once — that's where it deepens.