The Caretaker and the Wildcard
The ESFJ texts "get home safe." The ESTP is already walking to the next bar.
They'll see this match write-up. Your test answers stay with you.
These two
ESFJ × ESTPThe ESTP's fearless energy feels fresh to the ESFJ, and the ESFJ's attentiveness is a kind of care the ESTP rarely gets. Both love being around people, so their calendars never empty. But the ESTP tends to vanish without a word and then pop back up, and the ESFJ fills that silence with worry. When the ESTP says "nothing happened, why are you upset?", the ESFJ only feels more hurt.
To make it lastESTP, just send a "home" text. ESFJ, turn the worry into a request, not a lecture.
Each on their own
You're openly affectionate and look after your partner's people too. Short replies make you ask, "Is something wrong?"
The On-the-Spot FixerYou go straight for it. Dates are spontaneous and fun, but you tend to joke your way out of serious emotional talks, which can frustrate a partner.