The planner and the sprinter
While INTJ explains the three-phase plan, ESTP has already finished phase one.
They'll see this match write-up. Your test answers stay with you.
These two
ESTP × INTJINTJ maps the board before moving; ESTP reads the board while running across it. At work this clicks — INTJ sets the direction, ESTP pushes it through on the ground. On a trip, though, ESTP blows up INTJ's day-two route with one "ooh, that looks fun," and INTJ goes silent in a very loud way. As long as neither of you reads the other's style as sloppy, you make a strong team.
To make it lastPut a two-hour "whatever" slot in the itinerary up front.
Each on their own
You go straight for it. Dates are spontaneous and fun, but you tend to joke your way out of serious emotional talks, which can frustrate a partner.
The BlueprintYou review your own feelings before acting on them, so things start slow. Once you're in, you remember every preference and plan dates months ahead. Just know that "I booked our trip" doesn't always land the same as "I like you" — say both.