Essays and one-word replies
INFP sends a wall of text. ISTP replies: "k."
They'll see this match write-up. Your test answers stay with you.
These two
INFP × ISTPYou both respect alone time and live by your own rules, so neither of you smothers the other. The catch is how much feeling goes into words. INFP wants to lay it all out; ISTP keeps it short and plain. To INFP it reads as indifference, but for ISTP that reply was full sincerity. Learn each other's units of expression and this gets surprisingly comfortable.
To make it lastISTP, add an emoji after the "k." INFP, don't load a short reply with meaning.
Each on their own
You've imagined the relationship a dozen times before it starts. You cherish their little habits, but reality not matching the daydream can sting. Practice saying what bothers you right away — it makes everything easier.
The Quiet FixerYou show love by doing — fixing things, picking up what's needed — but rarely say it first. You last longest with someone who respects your alone time.