Life Skills Meets Brain Power
The ESFJ asks "did you eat?" and only then does the INTP realize they haven't eaten all day.
They'll see this match write-up. Your test answers stay with you.
These two
ESFJ × INTPThe ESFJ picks up the everyday stuff the INTP drops while lost in thought. The INTP is grateful, and the ESFJ is regularly surprised by the oddball facts the INTP comes out with. The snag is response time. The ESFJ wants to share feelings right away; the INTP says "let me think about it" and answers a day later. In a fight, if the INTP starts with who's right instead of how it felt, the ESFJ feels like they're talking to a wall.
To make it lastINTP, lead with "I get how you feel" before "technically."
Each on their own
You're openly affectionate and look after your partner's people too. Short replies make you ask, "Is something wrong?"
The TinkererWhen you like someone, they become your favorite subject. You'll forget the anniversary but remember an offhand comment from months ago. Instead of saying "I miss you," you send a link they'd love — which, honestly, means the same thing.