Now vs. Meaning
The ESFP says "it's just fun!" The INFJ is still working out why it's fun.
They'll see this match write-up. Your test answers stay with you.
These two
ESFP × INFJThe ESFP lives for today; the INFJ wonders what today means. At first the ESFP's bright energy lightens the INFJ's heavy mind, and the INFJ's depth feels new to the ESFP. But the more the ESFP drags them to crowded places, the more the INFJ drains, and the more the INFJ wants deep talks, the more restless the ESFP gets. Trying to change each other wears both out.
To make it lastAlternate: one night at the ESFP's party, the next at the INFJ's quiet cafe.
Each on their own
You're expressive and open, so dating you feels like an event. You love trying new things together, and long stretches of routine make you restless.
The InterpreterYou don't date just anyone, but once you're in, you're all in — you'll notice the slightest change in their tone. The catch is waiting for them to guess what's wrong. Say it while it's small.