The quiet strategy meeting
Picking a date spot, and both of you show up with supporting evidence.
They'll see this match write-up. Your test answers stay with you.
These two
INFJ × INTJYou both live with a big picture in your head, so talk about the future clicks, and you'd both rather be somewhere quiet than somewhere packed. Where you clash is feelings. INFJ says they're upset, INTJ offers three solutions, and what INFJ actually wanted was "that sounds rough." INTJ is genuinely puzzled about why that isn't a fix.
To make it lastINTJ, empathize before solving. INFJ, say up front what kind of response you want.
Each on their own
You don't date just anyone, but once you're in, you're all in — you'll notice the slightest change in their tone. The catch is waiting for them to guess what's wrong. Say it while it's small.
The BlueprintYou review your own feelings before acting on them, so things start slow. Once you're in, you remember every preference and plan dates months ahead. Just know that "I booked our trip" doesn't always land the same as "I like you" — say both.