Lightning and a diary
ESTP said it in passing. INFJ is on day three of decoding it.
They'll see this match write-up. Your test answers stay with you.
These two
ESTP × INFJESTP says whatever comes to mind and forgets it a minute later. INFJ lies awake turning the same sentence over. ESTP wants to make plans that afternoon; INFJ needs a week's notice to relax. Still, ESTP drags INFJ into the here-and-now fun they'd never chase alone, and INFJ quietly picks up the feelings ESTP drops along the way. That trade can last longer than anyone expects.
To make it lastESTP, pick your words once more. INFJ, read into them once less.
Each on their own
You go straight for it. Dates are spontaneous and fun, but you tend to joke your way out of serious emotional talks, which can frustrate a partner.
The InterpreterYou don't date just anyone, but once you're in, you're all in — you'll notice the slightest change in their tone. The catch is waiting for them to guess what's wrong. Say it while it's small.