Asking different questions
INFJ asks "where will we be in five years?" ISFJ asks "what time Saturday?"
They'll see this match write-up. Your test answers stay with you.
These two
INFJ × ISFJYou both put others first, so at the start it feels warm all around. Talk longer and the grain splits: INFJ wants to discuss hidden meanings and possibilities, ISFJ wants to look after daily life and the way things have always worked. Each of you is sincere, but the other's topic seems to float in midair. And since neither of you voices small hurts, problems sit for a long time and blow up late.
To make it lastOnce a month, each of you names one thing that's been bugging you.
Each on their own
You don't date just anyone, but once you're in, you're all in — you'll notice the slightest change in their tone. The catch is waiting for them to guess what's wrong. Say it while it's small.
The Quiet CaretakerYou love by anticipating what your partner needs before they ask. You do hope it gets noticed, though, and being taken for granted wears you down quietly.