The one who packs for everyone

While packing you tend to other people's needs before your own bag. Who can't eat what, who struggles to walk far — you remember it and fold it into the plan. A trip with you rolls on and nobody gets left out.

The measure isn't efficiency, it's mood. You'll take the longer way if it keeps everyone laughing, and you steer early if someone might feel slighted. The plan is tight, and it's pointed at the people.

The weakness is you always slide to the back. Accommodating everyone, you never say what you wanted, and quietly feel a little short afterwards. For one day, “somewhere I want to go” costs nobody anything — say it.