The mentor
You swallow the real thing to say the kind thing
Out front, seeing what people mean, by the heart, staying near.
Hard truths
you won't like these- 01You're last to notice your own tank is empty
- 02You lift everyone and have no one to lean on
How you got here
ENFJAbout you
You'd have held a place that gathered and led people — but by moving their hearts, not by force. You read first what each was good at and ached over, and pushed them to rise on their own; taking others' growth as your own joy was your nature.
You saw the person before the reasoning. Even a true word you'd have softened if it might wound, and so the following was large while your own exhaustion slid to the back. Burning out from trying to hold everyone was this type's old seat.
You stayed near and watched people long rather than roam. You planned how to lift someone and pushed for it instead of leaving it to chance, and that care changed several lives. If you still learn of your own empty tank late, that grain runs deep.